In the Torah, there is a famous story about Jacob wrestling with an angel. After wrestling with an angel all night, Jacob receives the new name of Israel. The word “Israel” literally means the man who “wrestles with an angel.”
I have always felt that one of the most unique things about being Jewish is the fact that we are not afraid to ask and to “wrestle with” very difficult questions. The question that I want to ask at this time is whether or not the United States should still be committing forces to Afghanistan.
Back when we wrestled with the Vietnam War, this felt deeply personal for I had a low draft number. American Jews were quite vocal in their opposition to that war. Now without a draft and fewer Jewish young men in the armed forces, it seems to me that our voices are conspicuously silent.
First a little background.
Our congregation has had several members who have served in Afghanistan. Two of them have been previously deployed in Iraq. I heard from one recently who told me that in addition to being hot and having lousy living conditions, the security situation there was much worse than in Iraq and that the level of personal danger to U.S. soldiers was quite high. He also expressed some reservation that the current government would ever be able to control the country.
During the Bush presidency, the Union for Reform Judaism made a controversial resolution concerning Iraq and calling for a timetable for withdrawal. Should we not also consider some sort of resolution concerning Afghanistan?
A year ago after General Stanley McChrystal made statements which eventually led to his being relieved of command, it became clearer to me that President Obama had listened to the voices of the military who had called for an ill-thought-out escalation. I was against the escalation at the time and actually drafted a URJ resolution calling for the President and Congress to bring home swiftly and safely all U.S. troops and military, CIA, and similar contract personnel from Afghanistan. The resolution was not considered by the movement. Yet, one year later, we find both Republican and Democrat voices asking for a reconsideration of American involvement in Afghanistan.
This past month, thirty-one American soldiers died in Afghanistan. At our services, we read the names of all thirty-one of these men and women. I feel so much for their families and I truly appreciate their loyalty and service to our county. To me, they are heroes! Each one of them represented a world unto himself or herself.
Nearly ten years have passed since the war in Afghanistan began. This is the longest running war in U.S. history. Moreover, the cost of this war is estimated at being ten billion dollars per month. Now that Bin Laden has been killed, many American politicians on both sides of the aisle are asking whether or not it is worthwhile for America to still have troops in Afghanistan. This is especially true at this time of economic hardship when cuts to both healthcare services and education are being made throughout the country on both the federal and state levels.
In addition, it seems to me that the U.S. war in Afghanistan has paralyzed and distorted U.S. foreign policy in two far more crucial areas of the world.
First, over the last decade, the coalition of forces led by the United States has been preoccupied first with Iraq and now with Afghanistan. While this has occurred, the present Iranian government has pursued the development of nuclear technology. Despite the fact that Iran has repeatedly asserted that this is aimed at civilian nuclear energy, most observers have found much evidence to suggest that Iran is indeed pursuing a nuclear weapon. We will never know for sure, but I feel that without the foreign policy preoccupation with Iraq and Afghanistan, our efforts to contain Iran’s nuclear development could have been different and possibly more effective.
Second, it seems to me that the U.S. war in Iraq and Afghanistan created a lack of focus on our part towards a robust effort at civil society building within in the Arab world over the past decade. The recent events of the so called “Arab Spring” in Egypt and elsewhere illustrate how very important such an effort could have been. As dictators have fallen, the absence of the structures of civil society left a tremendous vacuum. This vacuum presents an opportunity to radical and anti-Western Islamic factions to exploit for the purpose of creating radical Islamic governments.
So here is my point.
Why are we being so silent about this war?
At a time of economic pressures unprecedented in 70 years, cannot the $120 billion we are spending yearly in Afghanistan be used much more wisely both at home and in pursuing our foreign policy agenda across the globe? Do we really support continued American involvement in Afghanistan? Is it really fair to the men and women in our armed forces, some of whom have served more than three tours of duty, to ask them to continue such service?
I think we owe it to the men and women in our armed services and to ourselves to “wrestle” with these most serious questions. I think we owe it to our country to consider whether or not now is the time to expeditiously bring our troops home.
Finally, in any war which our leaders become engaged, there should be a reasonable expectation of success. However, there is in Jewish law a principle which maintains that a non-biblical rule which is not working, or is not accepted, or is not successful in meeting its goal, should be changed. Is now the time for such a change?
The above opinion is mine and mine alone. It does not represent that of the congregation or of the Union for Reform Judaism.
I would really like to hear your opinion on this. I value your opinion and would invite dialogue on this issue. Please let me know if you think that our movement should take a position on this issue. Please post your comments on the blog.
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Sunday, June 5, 2011
Thoughts on Confirmation (12th grade)
I would like to begin this evening by telling this class how very proud I am of all of you. When I look at your biographies and their your of Jewish involvement, I cannot help but be hopeful as to the future of our people in this country. You have served as Madrichim, been to Israel on the March of the Living, served our people in Moldava, worked in New Orleans, were leaders in BBYO and spoken on Capitol Hill in Washington DC to our congressmen and senators on issues of importance to the Jewish people. You are an incredible group with an incredible amount of commitment to our people, Israel, our nation and humankind.
You have had many wonderful experiences outside of Temple Emanuel. These experiences have been extremely formative in helping to create your Jewish identities. However, these experiences however would never have occurred without the incessant nudging of Temple Emanuel’s rabbis. In addition, most of these experiences would not have occurred without the support, patience and encouragement of many others.
I would like to thank the leadership of Temple Emanuel for being so supportive in this effort to educate our young people. The Greensboro Jewish Federation has been supportive by providing Israel experience grants and grants to help our children attend the L’taken Social Justice seminars. The financial support of the Temple Emanuel community in helping to provide grants and scholarships for Jewish camping, L’taken and Israel experiences has been very generous. The teachers and tutors, from TEPS to the religious school, have all done wonderful work in instilling a magnificent pride in being Jewish in our children. The teachers on Sunday who have worked with our teens as they were Madrichim and the teachers who have taught them with such commitment deserve special mention.
The point here is that the success here with this class did not happen in a vacuum and the role that Temple Emanuel played is indeed significant. The most important thing that I want the eioght of you as confimrsand to know is that our commitment to you as a congregatipon and as a Jewish community is I would like to think iron clad.
However, the most important role was that of the parents of these wonderful young people and to them goes our biggest, “Todah Rabbah,” our biggest “Thank you.” Without your help and encouragement and without your communication of Jewish values in the home, everything that we wanted to do with these young people, we would not have been able to do. In addition, most everything that these confirmands have accomplished as Jews and as human beings would not have been accomplished.
To our confirmands we say once again how very proud we are of you!
The Torah tells us that the Jewish people were in Egypt for 430 years. The rabbi’s asked why during these 430 years the Jewish people did not assimilate into the walls. What was the secret of their survival? How did they, even in the midst of repression, assimilation and exile manage to keep their identity as Jews?
The Midrash gives us three reasons. The first reason is that they never forgot their Jewish names. They never forgot their identity and their heritage. Names are so very important as a part of our identity.
Recently, I met a woman by the name of Consuelo. She had grown up in a poor Hispanic barrio, five blocks on the American side of the Mexican border. Her family was one that was extremely proud of its Hispanic heritage. When she was 6 years old, she started first grade in an American school. By that time, she was already bilingual.
When she walked into the school, the teacher asked her, “What is your name?” she answered, “Consuelo.” The teacher said, “From now on your name is ‘Connie.’” Consuelo told the teacher, “Absolutely not! I am not Connie, I am Consuelo.” The teacher did not know what to do with such a petulant child and consequently sent her to the principal’s office. Poor little six year old Consuelo thought that she was being honored by being sent to the principal’s office. After ten minutes of sitting in a chair outside of the office, the door opened and the principal brought little Consuelo into the office. The principal said to her “Now tell me, what is wrong with Connie?” Consuelo proceeded to answer, “I don’t know what is wrong with Connie; I don’t even know her, do you know what’s wrong with Connie?”
Yes, my friends, names are important and you as graduates have built up incredible names and identities as Jews over the past four year. As you go to college, there will be more than ample opportunity for you to forget your names and your heritage.
There will be those who in subtle ways will encourage you to do so and to forget that you are Jews. Nevertheless, the secret to our survival, as well as the ultimate testimony to the value of the schooling that you have received is that you will always remember who you are. A proud committed Jew.
The second thing that ensured our survival in Egypt was that we never abandoned our distinctive style of Jewish dress. Most of us have a tallit. Some of you even have tefillin. Take them with you. There are other aspects of Jewish “dress” as well. These could include Shabbat candles, a Kiddush cup, a Tanach and other Jewish books. These are all aspects of Jewish dress that you need to take with you to college.
Not only should you take them to college, but you should use them while you are there. Let them be a reflection of who you are! Let them be a sign of who you are as a Jew, for they are aspects of Jewish dress.
The third thing that enabled us to survive the Egyptian repression and exile was the fact that we never forgot our holy tongue, the language of the Jew, the language of prayer and the voice of Torah. These things, together with the language of Jewish activism should be your language on campus next year. Take Jewish study courses. Participate in activities at Hillel. Being a Jew who speaks the Jewish language is more than being a person who can speak Hebrew. Speaking the Jewish language today means speaking out on behalf of Jewish values and interests. It means taking leadership within your campus Jewish community and working for greater involvement of Jews within that community.
It is this language that is also the language of our commitment to Israel. We need college students who are willing to be pro peace and pro security for Israel and the Middle East. The amount of Israel bashing on college campuses is indeed significant and much of it has been funded by Saudi oil money.
But in addition to that, we know that in America, the attachment of American Jews to Israel has fallen during the past two years. In 2002, the amount of Jews who felt very emotionally attached to Israel was 31%, this past year it had dropped from 31 to 26%. You indeed have a special role to play by using the Jewish language that you have learned here to strengthen the attachment of the American Jewish community to Israel,
In the book of Esther, when Esther is afraid to lift her voice to save the Jewish people, Mordecai tells her: “Do not imagine that you, of all the Jews, will escape with your life by being in the king’s palace. On the contrary, if you keep silent in this crisis, relief and deliverance will come to the Jews from another quarter, while you and your father’s house will perish. And who knows, perhaps you have attained a royal position for just such a crisis.” In essence, he is telling her that speaking out on behalf of the Jewish people is her fate. It is the reason that she was born and it is the reason that she has experienced the things that have happened to her.
When it comes to Israel in particular and for being Jewish in general, we need you to be like Esther. We need you to lift your voices. This could be why you were born in the first place! You have come here for this moment in our history, a moment when you will be called upon first to be voices for our people on college campuses and then to become committed Jews for the rest of your lives. If you do these things, you will bring great honor to Temple Eamnuel, your family and yourselves.
So, Mazel Tov and Yashar Koach, on your graduation! Become this generation’s Esther. Be like those Jews in Egypt more than 3000 years ago when you go to college. Don’t forget your name, don’t forget who you are. Take your Jewish dress with you and finally, make your language the language of prayer, study, and commitment to Judaism. Let Israel be part of your everyday existence! If you do this then you will bring blessings not only to yourself but also to Temple Emanuel. By doing this you will help to ensure a glorious future for the Jewish people here in the United States and everywhere.
The Ibo people of Nigeria say:
Not to know is bad
Not to want to know is worse
Not to hope is unthinkable
Not to care is unforgivable
However, I would like to change the last line so that the saying reads as follows:
Not to know is bad
Not to want to know is worse
Not to care is unthinkable
Not to act is unforgivable
So next year, it is my hope that you will indeed become a Jewish actor on your college campus. Your challenge it to take the teachings you have learned and shared together and to bring them to this moment. Know always that you will never be alone. You are loved by your parents, teachers and rabbis and we are only a cell phone call away. Most importantly however, realize that with all the challenges that you will face in college, you will truly never be alone because God will always be with you.
May God bless all of you with great success next year! May you be blessed with health, learning, meaning and peace!
You have had many wonderful experiences outside of Temple Emanuel. These experiences have been extremely formative in helping to create your Jewish identities. However, these experiences however would never have occurred without the incessant nudging of Temple Emanuel’s rabbis. In addition, most of these experiences would not have occurred without the support, patience and encouragement of many others.
I would like to thank the leadership of Temple Emanuel for being so supportive in this effort to educate our young people. The Greensboro Jewish Federation has been supportive by providing Israel experience grants and grants to help our children attend the L’taken Social Justice seminars. The financial support of the Temple Emanuel community in helping to provide grants and scholarships for Jewish camping, L’taken and Israel experiences has been very generous. The teachers and tutors, from TEPS to the religious school, have all done wonderful work in instilling a magnificent pride in being Jewish in our children. The teachers on Sunday who have worked with our teens as they were Madrichim and the teachers who have taught them with such commitment deserve special mention.
The point here is that the success here with this class did not happen in a vacuum and the role that Temple Emanuel played is indeed significant. The most important thing that I want the eioght of you as confimrsand to know is that our commitment to you as a congregatipon and as a Jewish community is I would like to think iron clad.
However, the most important role was that of the parents of these wonderful young people and to them goes our biggest, “Todah Rabbah,” our biggest “Thank you.” Without your help and encouragement and without your communication of Jewish values in the home, everything that we wanted to do with these young people, we would not have been able to do. In addition, most everything that these confirmands have accomplished as Jews and as human beings would not have been accomplished.
To our confirmands we say once again how very proud we are of you!
The Torah tells us that the Jewish people were in Egypt for 430 years. The rabbi’s asked why during these 430 years the Jewish people did not assimilate into the walls. What was the secret of their survival? How did they, even in the midst of repression, assimilation and exile manage to keep their identity as Jews?
The Midrash gives us three reasons. The first reason is that they never forgot their Jewish names. They never forgot their identity and their heritage. Names are so very important as a part of our identity.
Recently, I met a woman by the name of Consuelo. She had grown up in a poor Hispanic barrio, five blocks on the American side of the Mexican border. Her family was one that was extremely proud of its Hispanic heritage. When she was 6 years old, she started first grade in an American school. By that time, she was already bilingual.
When she walked into the school, the teacher asked her, “What is your name?” she answered, “Consuelo.” The teacher said, “From now on your name is ‘Connie.’” Consuelo told the teacher, “Absolutely not! I am not Connie, I am Consuelo.” The teacher did not know what to do with such a petulant child and consequently sent her to the principal’s office. Poor little six year old Consuelo thought that she was being honored by being sent to the principal’s office. After ten minutes of sitting in a chair outside of the office, the door opened and the principal brought little Consuelo into the office. The principal said to her “Now tell me, what is wrong with Connie?” Consuelo proceeded to answer, “I don’t know what is wrong with Connie; I don’t even know her, do you know what’s wrong with Connie?”
Yes, my friends, names are important and you as graduates have built up incredible names and identities as Jews over the past four year. As you go to college, there will be more than ample opportunity for you to forget your names and your heritage.
There will be those who in subtle ways will encourage you to do so and to forget that you are Jews. Nevertheless, the secret to our survival, as well as the ultimate testimony to the value of the schooling that you have received is that you will always remember who you are. A proud committed Jew.
The second thing that ensured our survival in Egypt was that we never abandoned our distinctive style of Jewish dress. Most of us have a tallit. Some of you even have tefillin. Take them with you. There are other aspects of Jewish “dress” as well. These could include Shabbat candles, a Kiddush cup, a Tanach and other Jewish books. These are all aspects of Jewish dress that you need to take with you to college.
Not only should you take them to college, but you should use them while you are there. Let them be a reflection of who you are! Let them be a sign of who you are as a Jew, for they are aspects of Jewish dress.
The third thing that enabled us to survive the Egyptian repression and exile was the fact that we never forgot our holy tongue, the language of the Jew, the language of prayer and the voice of Torah. These things, together with the language of Jewish activism should be your language on campus next year. Take Jewish study courses. Participate in activities at Hillel. Being a Jew who speaks the Jewish language is more than being a person who can speak Hebrew. Speaking the Jewish language today means speaking out on behalf of Jewish values and interests. It means taking leadership within your campus Jewish community and working for greater involvement of Jews within that community.
It is this language that is also the language of our commitment to Israel. We need college students who are willing to be pro peace and pro security for Israel and the Middle East. The amount of Israel bashing on college campuses is indeed significant and much of it has been funded by Saudi oil money.
But in addition to that, we know that in America, the attachment of American Jews to Israel has fallen during the past two years. In 2002, the amount of Jews who felt very emotionally attached to Israel was 31%, this past year it had dropped from 31 to 26%. You indeed have a special role to play by using the Jewish language that you have learned here to strengthen the attachment of the American Jewish community to Israel,
In the book of Esther, when Esther is afraid to lift her voice to save the Jewish people, Mordecai tells her: “Do not imagine that you, of all the Jews, will escape with your life by being in the king’s palace. On the contrary, if you keep silent in this crisis, relief and deliverance will come to the Jews from another quarter, while you and your father’s house will perish. And who knows, perhaps you have attained a royal position for just such a crisis.” In essence, he is telling her that speaking out on behalf of the Jewish people is her fate. It is the reason that she was born and it is the reason that she has experienced the things that have happened to her.
When it comes to Israel in particular and for being Jewish in general, we need you to be like Esther. We need you to lift your voices. This could be why you were born in the first place! You have come here for this moment in our history, a moment when you will be called upon first to be voices for our people on college campuses and then to become committed Jews for the rest of your lives. If you do these things, you will bring great honor to Temple Eamnuel, your family and yourselves.
So, Mazel Tov and Yashar Koach, on your graduation! Become this generation’s Esther. Be like those Jews in Egypt more than 3000 years ago when you go to college. Don’t forget your name, don’t forget who you are. Take your Jewish dress with you and finally, make your language the language of prayer, study, and commitment to Judaism. Let Israel be part of your everyday existence! If you do this then you will bring blessings not only to yourself but also to Temple Emanuel. By doing this you will help to ensure a glorious future for the Jewish people here in the United States and everywhere.
The Ibo people of Nigeria say:
Not to know is bad
Not to want to know is worse
Not to hope is unthinkable
Not to care is unforgivable
However, I would like to change the last line so that the saying reads as follows:
Not to know is bad
Not to want to know is worse
Not to care is unthinkable
Not to act is unforgivable
So next year, it is my hope that you will indeed become a Jewish actor on your college campus. Your challenge it to take the teachings you have learned and shared together and to bring them to this moment. Know always that you will never be alone. You are loved by your parents, teachers and rabbis and we are only a cell phone call away. Most importantly however, realize that with all the challenges that you will face in college, you will truly never be alone because God will always be with you.
May God bless all of you with great success next year! May you be blessed with health, learning, meaning and peace!
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